阿伟人生大道理。。。

欲速则不达 - 意思是说主观性急图快，违背了客观规律，反而达不到目的。对于“一万年太久，只争朝夕”的人来说，最不容易接受这个劝导。然而无数事实证明，“欲速则不达”是一个颠扑不破的道理。

"He that can have Patience, can have what he will" - Benjamin Franklin

Well i think this is something that i must always drill into my brain... Contrary to what some people i know tells me, i'm not someone who is very patient... Perhaps it depends on the kinda matters on hand, sometimes i appear to be someone who is very patient because i can have relatively high tolerance level for certain things, perhaps that creates the false image... or maybe there is just two sides of me...

i can be especially impatient to things that matters to me.. things that i want to succeed in... guess this is because i'm a result-oriented person... i always wanna see results and achievements.. haiz but i think this character of mine can really be my 绊脚石。。。

Alot of things cannot be achieved overnight, it takes patience, time, to build on... Just like planting a plant.. they wouldnt blossom overnight... sometimes people just make mistakes and learn things the hard way, but at least people learn... it will be bad if given the same situation and the same mistake is being committed again...

"The leopard never changes its spot", 狗改不了吃屎。。。

Well i think this really applies to some people some situation... However sometimes maybe its not the leopard never changes its spot.. just that it needs more time ba... （我想，白发魔女的头发是不可能在一夜之间变白的。。 哈哈) i feel that a person's character is being moulded since day one that he or she is borned into the world... every single little thing that he or she experience moulds him or her in a way... and this moulding continues through out the lifetime after each experience...

A child cries when his candy drops on the floor... next time he will learn to be more careful when he is having his candy and not be so careless.. if someone makes a mistake and feel the pain, i think he or she will wanna change and avoid making the same mistakes again...

Therefore i would want to 推翻 this saying of "The leopard never changes its spot", 狗改不了吃屎。。。 ! haha... yea its easy to say, hopefully slowly i will learn... maybe doing gardening and planting helps in a way to cultivate patience hah...

ya and sometimes the more eager you want to achieve or get something, the harder it seems...

谋事在人，成事在天。。。 有时还得看天意。。。。

我想。。。 最终不管做什么事，带着一个平常心去做最好吧！可是说的简单吗。。。 做起来，是需要放很多的 effort 的！哈哈。。。