I know i'm not one who has a very nice temper (those who work with me will know) contrary to what many who just get to know me perceive me as... many think i have the Mr Nice guy look, well its all in the appearance only, and it depends on how close you are to me...
Basically i'm an introvert, therefore i don express what i feel deep down inside me unless I know the person well enough, and sometimes is because i cant be bothered to express my opinion or critique since it's not something that affects me and i shouldnt be a kaypoh.
however if the issue is something that i care about and concerns me or my friends, normally i cant hold my tongue back. Just like my father (trying to link my temper to some hereditary genes haha - Excuses), i am one who will just shoot if i don like somethings or if i feel things are not being done up to my expectations... Well people may say I have very poor EQ, no denying that from my side, but its just me... i think i will offend tonnes of people with my temper and its not easy to work with me...
But funnily, during my PA attachment, there wasnt many things that affect my temper even though i see many things that i think can be improved on... perhaps it was due to my position at that time, i was just an intern and wasnt in an authoratative position... I guess its because i'm a perfectionist ba, i wouldnt allow my work to be sub standard especially if its within my control...
i really hope i can improve on my temper bit by bit, otherwise i really will get those related illness or disease soon haa e.g. hypertension... Seriously i think my partner needs to be one who has very good temper or EQ to help curb mine...
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Thank u, good post! =)
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